A Beginner’s
Guide to Meditation CD
You’ve
chosen to learn the art of meditation. An excellent practice that will
calm your emotions, strengthen your immune system, and generally improve
your relationships and work. Meditation is the best alternative to
stressful conditions and situations.
So where
do you begin? Look around your home or office for a space that is free of
noise. A space not brightly lit; rather one that feels peaceful to you.
Chose a space where you can regularly spend a quiet hour without any
disturbance from phones, children or adults. Keep in mind that you can
always leave your meditation to handle an emergency, but avoid
interruptions for ordinary affairs.
Equip
your space with comfortable seating; a favorite chair or sofa in which you
can sit upright, feet flat on the floor, with no back strain or effort.
Don’t choose a chair that is hard or that inclines. You want to meditate,
not squirm or sleep. Place your hands in your lap.
How
often and how long should you meditate? Beginners will find that twenty
minutes once or twice daily will suffice. As you progress in feeling the
flow of meditation, you can lengthen the time, perhaps as much as one
hour. But don’t use your meditation to avoid engaging your life; it is not
intended as an escape.
Regular
meditation will equip you to enjoy your life and to be active with vastly
improved productivity and creativity.
Seat
yourself in your comfortable chair. In your first sessions, plan to spend
fifteen minutes learning how to observe your breathe. Begin breathing
deeply, letting your stomach expand. Exhale slowly and completely. As you
continue this slow breathing, move your attention to your breathe. Focus
on the air moving in your nose and out again. If you wish, you can breathe
into your nose and exhale out your mouth. Just notice your breathe.
Many
beginners will soon find that they lose their focus. Thoughts intrude and
take attention. Memories rise to the surface. Before you know it you are
swept away in a train of thoughts and feelings. This is normal. As soon as
you become aware that you are no longer aware of your breathing, gently
detach from the thoughts and return your attention to watching your
breathe. It is very important that you feel no guilt nor punish yourself
in any way for losing your concentration. As you learn to gently release
the thoughts and memories, it will become easier for you to do.
If you
find that after ten or more times of practicing focusing on your
breathing, it is difficult or even impossible to remove yourself from a
flow of thoughts or inner pictures, there is a remedy that never fails.
Imagine that you are watching a large screen television. Choose one
intruding thought or inner picture and make it huge on the screen. Imagine
it colored with brilliant shades so it really stands out. Now, with your
wonderful imagination, fade the color and turn it into a small grey lump.
Make the television set itself shrink. Take it from a large screen to a
screen the size of a piece of lint. In your mind, notice a door or window
opening and the lint carried outside by a small wind until it moves away
across the landscape. All the while the television set is becoming smaller
and smaller until it totally disappears. As it leaves return immediately
to noticing your breathing.
You are
now ready to begin holding a chosen thought in your mind. Take the words,
“I am deeply relaxed and at peace.” Repeat this sentence over and over.
You may find it useful to say it aloud a few times and then repeat it
silently. As before, if other thoughts or pictures intrude, release them
gently and return to your phrase, “I am deeply relaxed and at peace.”
This
phrase will become the truth for you as you practice holding it in your
mind. Eventually you will hold it without saying the individual words; you
will only experience the relaxation and peace. You will find yourself
becoming increasingly calm and quiet inside.
Finally
you will enter an inner consciousness where you feel a sense of presence
without your doing or thinking anything. The presence will enfold you in
welcome and you will feel loved and appreciated. your sense of being
separate will fade away and you will become one with the presence. You are
now meditating. After awhile – it may be only a second or several minutes
– when you become aware of yourself again, hold a thought of thanks for
the presence and the experience. Your meditation is complete and you
re-enter your life with a feeling of enthusiasm, excitement and
expectancy.
Now
listen to a summary of this information for learning to meditate: Chose a
comfortable seat in a quiet place where you will not be disturbed. Sit
upright with feet flat on the floor, your hands in your lap. Breathe
deeply and exhale completely, noticing the breath moving in and out.
Allowing yourself to become more and more quiet you begin holding the
phrase, “I am deeply relaxed and at peace.” As you become inwardly still,
going deeper and deeper, you become one with a presence where you feel
loved and appreciated. Your sense of self dissolves in the inner presence
for a brief instant, and you become aware of yourself, give thanks and
notice that you are renewed and well, ready for life.
This
completes your introduction in a beginner’s guide to meditation.
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